follow all the steps as shown in pictures:
before making visible or invisible follow all the steps as shown in above given picture
Inivisible Steps:
1. simply click on "Offline chat list" from the "LISTS"
2. add the friends in list to whom you want to disappear yourself on chat (as shown in picture step no.12)
Visible Steps:
1. simply click on "Offline chat list" from the "LISTS"
2. click on "See All" (as shown in picture step no.13) and then click on users to whom now you want to appear your self or want to remove from the invisible list.(as shown in picture step no.14,15)